One said that in a marriage, sharing thoughts is nonsense. Because problem comes once the thought is revealed. In my case, every time I expressed what was bothering me, it turned out to be a mistake. I was stunned, frowning, confused whether all marriages were like this. I remembered the saying, "a pious woman maintains her marriage" but... I didn't feel like I was maintaining it, because I didn't try to leave from the beginning. I felt like he was the one who's trying hard to maintain it. I felt like I AM the problem.